GiGi
We meet people who can change our lives. GiGi is such a
person. I have known her for years. She now is in her early 90s. However, a
person half her age cannot replicate her quick wit and verbal retorts during
our conversations.
When GiGi was much younger, she taught Latin in the high
school in Buena Vista, GA. Buena Vista is a small Southern town with a
population around 2000 that has not changed much over the years. It is a quiet
town, which is probably why GiGi likes it so much. She was married, but her
husband died during WWII in Germany. At that time, GiGi was a young mother of a
baby boy born just before her husband left for the war in Europe.
Today, the caretaker role is reversed. GiGi's son now takes
care of her. She refuses to go to what she calls "one of those old folks'
homes." I met her at the University of Chicago Hospital in a waiting room
nearly two decades ago. I was waiting to see my doctor, and, while waiting, I
was doing some work on my laptop. She was also waiting to see her doctor. I do
not recall who started the conversation first, but we talked until the staff
called us to see our physicians.
As chance would have it, we both finished our office visit
about the same time. I offered to take her up to the cafeteria on the second
floor of the Duchossois Center. Thus began our twenty-year long friendship. Additionally,
it also began a lengthy conversation in a restaurant in Chicago, which she
calls the big city. GiGi will come up
to Chicago for medical checkups, to attend the Chicago Symphony, or just to do
some shopping at least a couple times a year.
I appreciate GiGi's openness and honesty. All of our
conversations over the years have benefitted me more than she could imagine. I
wrote the following essay after her most recent trek to the
big city.
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Dinner with GiGi
The Socratic Method of an Older Woman
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07/17/15
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Bananas Flambé for GiGi
An Extraordinary Woman
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11/15/23 |
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GiGi
And Her Message to Betsy
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07/18/18
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The Water Horse of Loch Ness
And Our Water Horses of Life
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02/07/18
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GiGi’s 90th Birthday Party
At Down the Hatch
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12/20/17
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A Dog's Purpose
The Person's Purpose
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03/03/17
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Banning Muslims
Making America Great Again
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01/16/17
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GiGi's Psychoanalysis
Me and My Hauntings
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09/23/16
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Ravel's Bolero
Was Repeating Itself
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04/20/16
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The Little Match Girl
And The Golden Statue
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01/11/16
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Daring Greatly
Or How Failure Frees Us to Succeed
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10/30/15
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The Old Pine Table
An Object of Renewal and Rebirth
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10/14/15
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A Great Dancer with Death
A Sobering Experience
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09/21/15
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Agnes Majors in the Minors
A Big Fish in a Drying Up Small Pond
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09/04/15
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The Dragon Rocker
And GiGi's Son
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08/07/15
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When You are Not Preaching to the Choir
Finally Understanding What You Thought You Knew
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07/25/15
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